It’s only been a couple months since Marie Kondo’s method swept the nation and her new method not only became popular, but it inspired lots of people to start deep cleaning and organizing their homes. When Joss and Main reached out to see if I could share some organizational tips and favorite items from their website, I couldn’t wait to start this project!
I’m a little OCD when it comes to organizing and I love to keep things extra tidy in my boys’ room so they can always find their own things and keep their space clean. Here are a few tips that have successfully worked for my toddler boys on keeping their rooms tidy and organized –
Clean up EVERY TIME you get toys out. It’s a rarity that you will walk in our home and see their room a mess. It’s not because I’m mom of the year, but because we have a system that works great for us – it’s important to me to teach my children to respect their belongings. Even if we are running out the door, we clean up every time. It took a little time to teach them this method at 3 years old so I would recommend starting as early as you can. It wasn’t too long after that they started doing this all by themselves.
One toy at a time. We have a rule in our home that if you are playing with one toy and are ready to move on to something different, you should put that toy away first. It makes cleaning up a breeze when there are only a few items to pick up when it’s time to leave or get ready for bed. Of course there are times this rule doesn’t apply, but in general they play with one toy or set of toys at a time before switching to something new.
Don’t do it for them. I am all for helping my children tidy up their rooms but teaching them to be responsible for their own things is something we started pretty early on. A few months ago I taught them how to hang up their own shirts and now they love helping me get laundry done. Each day when they get ready for bed they put their dirty laundry in the hamper, shoes on the shelf, fold their pants as best they can, and get their pajamas on by themselves. My boys love that they have independent jobs and look forward to doing things by themselves every day.
Organize by category. If you have one giant bin that everything goes into chances are things will get lost frequently and your children will do more of a “dump everything out” method when they play which makes cleaning up so much harder! Here are some photos of how I have organized the boys’ books, games, and toys!
Choose good organizational items. Under each of the boys’ beds they have several plastic totes that are designated for certain toys. They can easily slide these out and open/shut them by themselves. We also have a variety of baskets, bins, and sliding drawers that they can use without help. If children constantly need you in order to access or put away toys, chances are they will get frustrated and may not play with those toys as much or be excited to clean up. Choosing age appropriate storage items for your children to use will help them independently get out and put away their own toys.
Make it fun or use an incentive program. If you children are not used to cleaning up by themselves and resist when you ask them to help, make it something they look forward to! Whether that’s getting an extra five minutes on the iPad when they do clean up or even cleaning up to a fun song! Children will be more excited and motivated to organize and clean up if they are enjoying it!
When browsing through Joss and Main’s website it was hard for me to narrow down my choices because of their amazing selection! Below are my absolute favorites that inspire me! I chose warm and neutral tones, lots of textures, and things that are beautiful, yet functional for a child of any age! I hope you enjoy this selection from Joss and Main and be sure to let me know which ones are your absolute favorites!
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A few months ago I started searching for a mantel for our dining room! For the last two years we’ve been in our house there has always been something not quite right to me in the dining room. The wall on the right side of the room is so large and no matter how I decorated it, it felt off. One day I was browsing through Pinterest and saw a faux fireplace when it hit me – that’s what it needed! Right away I hopped on Facebook Marketplace and started searching. Surprisingly it only took two days to find one in my budget. This mantel was chippy and gorgeous and only $100! Most fireplace mantels were priced near $350-$400 so when I saw this one I immediately made plans with the seller to purchase it.
We drove over an hour to pick up the gorgeous piece and as soon as I got it home and leaned it against the wall, I knew my brain could finally rest because this was what this space needed! I loved it but in order for it to match the style and decor in our house, I knew it needed to be lightened up a bit. Off I ran to Michaels and purchased Folk Art Milk Paint! This paint was perfect because it wasn’t a thick coat of paint, just enough to give it a “white washed” look.
Once the mantel was complete we mounted it on the wall by attaching heavy duty picture frame brackets to the back of the mantel and hung it on the wall. We kept it low enough so the legs would still touch the ground and help support the weight of the mantel. I knew right away I wanted to build an insert and had just the perfect idea in mind.
I have seen book page inserts floating around Pinterest and Instagram but never any tutorials on how to make one that I’m aware of, hence the point of this blog post. This may have been the most simple DIY project yet and looks like a million dollars! Here’s how to make one yourself!
Here’s what you’ll need:
1 piece of hobby board or 1/4 inch plywood
1 book – I recommend a novel or a book with all words
Nail and Nail gun
Here’s how to make a book page insert:
First start by ripping lots and lots of pages out of the book you will be using. I love the look of ripped pages so the more tattered the better.
I started gluing individual pages at the bottom of the hobby board and worked my way up. In my opinion, making them look different and mixing up the way they lay on the board gave it a much more textured look.
Don’t overdo it with the hot glue or you will have lumps and bumps behind the pages. I typically did a thin line on 2 sides and small dots on the others.
I did overlap the pages on the hobby board so it would have a clean line to cut the edges with. I recommend making your board about 2-3 inches bigger than the space so you don’t have to make it look perfect since it will be tucked in behind the mantel.
Once it was all dry, I tripped up the edges with scissors. From there we used a nail gun and attached it to the back of the mantel. If you don’t want to attach it, you can always just slide it in behind the mantel.
That’s it! Pretty easy peasy! There are lot of other ideas for faux fireplace mantel inserts as well I will link here for you to get more inspiration!
Thanks for reading and as always if you try this out, please tag me on instagram @ourgatheredcottage!
April 28, 2017, the day we were interviewed to become Henry’s adoptive parents was such a special date in more ways than one. I remember sitting in that cold, white conference room staring at the box of donuts we had brought to the ladies who would be interviewing us. I took a deep breath as they slid a giant stack of papers to us – it was there we found out so much about the boy we now call our son. When we looked at the top we saw his birth name followed by a familiar date, April 28, 2014. It was his third birthday that day and I felt an instant bond with this boy I had never met. Then my heart started beating because I realized what else that day had meant for me three years ago, it was the day my life fell apart.
As I sit here in my beautiful home – my husband in the next room watching a football game and my children asleep in their beds – I am eternally grateful for the beautiful life God has gifted me. I could never have imagined living the life I have now and I truly owe every piece of it to the Lord. He has blessed me beyond my wildest dreams. Four and a half years ago, I couldn’t say that though. On April 28, 2014 my life as I knew it completely crumbled apart. My 7 year marriage was suddenly over and I was left to pick up the pieces alone. The day your life falls apart is not a date you forget, well at least it wasn’t for me.
As I sat there in the interview and read that date, my heart felt like it was exploding. My eyes started welling up with tears, and I grabbed Curt’s hand. It hit me. God allowed my son to be born over a thousand miles away the exact day my life fell apart. The day that I fell to my knees and thought life would never look beautiful again – He was working and my son was born that very day. You might have thought I was crazy when I knew he would be my son after seeing his picture on a poster board? That’s nothing compared to the complete peace I felt after seeing that date on that paper. This was my son and I knew it.
The interview went on for another hour as we talked in depth about the home that Henry and his sisters would need. At that time all three of them were diagnosed with some sort of speech delay, trauma, or autism. I truly felt in my heart that we would only be chosen for Henry that day from the conversations we had in that conference room. There we sat as a newly married couple that had never been parents, can you blame them for thinking we weren’t ready for the instant family we wanted so badly?
Let’s get to the part about Mother’s Day because after all that is the title of this post. May, 2017, two days before Mothers’ Day around 2:30 pm I was teaching yearbook to my class of high school seniors when I got a call from DSS. It was the director of the program to let me know we had been chosen as pre-adoptive parents for Henry. She then went on to let me know we had not been chosen for the girls and that they felt it would be too overwhelming to take on three special needs children. Tears immediately poured down my face as I stood in the hallway trying to grasp what I had just been told, I was going to be a mom. There was so much happiness and sadness all at the same time because as happy as I was about being chosen for Henry, I immediately grieved the loss that he would not grow up with his sisters and my perfect idea for our instant family was gone. As my conversation ended with the director she said, “Mrs. Baker, happy first Happy Mothers’ Day, you are going to make a great mom.”
She ended the conversation by giving me a few dates to choose from to meet our little boy. Without hesitating I agreed to the first one she gave me. I hung up the phone, closed my eyes, as I realized it was all working out. I was going to be a mom.
After we attended the meeting that night, I had butterflies for weeks. If you know anything about DSS, everything takes time – LOTS of time. We overheard Henry’s case worker mention that he had two sisters that were up for adoption as well and friends, let me tell you – I went a little crazy. Suddenly my family was all planned out, surely it was God’s will for us to get them all! One adoption ceremony = instant family, right?! We decided to attend the next foster to adopt meeting in hopes of finding out more about them and possibly putting an application in for them too.
(These photos are from Henry’s first visit in our home)pintopinterestpintopinterestThis meeting there were only 5 other people in attendance so my confidence on adopting all 3 was through the roof. During the meeting we sat next to a lady who was very interested in the girls and I was immediately heartbroken. Of course other people want these children, they are perfect. That evening on the way home, all that confidence I felt was gone and I worried that maybe Henry wasn’t supposed to be ours or maybe we would never become parents at all. Extreme I know, but when you see something so perfect right in front of you and want it with all of your heart, your emotions are everywhere just hoping that you get that picture perfect storybook ending. When you hear that foster care is a roller coaster ride – believe it, it is.
April 28, 2017 we drove to the Baltimore DSS office. We left extra early to bring donuts from YiaYia’s bakery and rode almost the whole way in silence. We were about to interview for our potential children and my typical over chatty self was completely somber by the reality that we had to nail this interview. There we sat with 4 ladies – the children’s case worker, the match worker, our home worker, and the foster to adopt department head. The first question was “Did you bring those donuts to bribe us?” I laughed under my breath and said,”Yes?” Thankfully it broke the ice and the interview began.
Looking back now, they definitely only had us in mind for Henry but we tried to pull out all the stops to convince them we should have all three. We were handed three packets that included every single hospital record, doctors visits, psychological evaluations, and diagnosis for all three siblings. To say it was shocking and scary would be an understatement. What had we just gotten ourselves into? All three of these sweet babies had struggled so hard and it was so evident by just looking at the paperwork that they needed so much. We talked about our home, our puppies, experience with children, why we wanted to be parents, what our parents thought about foster care, and the support system we had in place to get us through parenthood. We left that meeting overwhelmed, we knew life was about to change and it certainly was. pintopinterest
March 30, 2017 we attended our first foster to adopt meeting in Baltimore City. Our journey began 7 months before that night getting ready to adopt through foster care. We had attended 10 weeks of training, had background checks, mental and wellness appointments, multiple home studies, countless meetings, and endless amounts of paperwork. We were ready to be parents.pintopinterestJust a few weeks prior to that meeting we had received our license to be foster parents and we were so unprepared for all that would happen in just a few short weeks. That evening we attended our first foster to adopt meeting and it was quite awkward, to be honest. We sat in a room with a rotating slideshow showing the “available” children. About 3 minutes in we saw a cute little blonde hair, blue eyed boy come up on the screen and it was right there in that little room that I swear I got chill bumps – I could already picture a life with him in it. I grabbed Curt’s hand and squeezed it and whispered “That could be him!”
pintopinterestFrom there, we sat in a room with around 60 other people who were interested in being adoptive parents for the FIVE children available that evening. They had giant poster boards of each child along with information for you to read. Henry’s read something like this – Sweet boy with lots of energy. “J”(birth name) is diagnosed with autism but has the brightest smile. Loves to give hugs and knows his ABC’s! I could feel my heart already being knit with the boy in the picture and as I watched that video I knew that I wanted to meet him. Autism didn’t freak me out. I grew up with a severely autistic brother and knew all to well what that meant. I could tell immediately by the video that he was wrongly diagnosed and I don’t know if it was the determination in me but goodness, I was ready to advocate for this boy.pintopinterestpintopinterestThat night over 20 people put in applications for Henry. My heart sank as I quickly began thinking we might not get chosen. We finished the night off by filling out an application and praying that if God wanted us to be his parents that everything would work out.
Welcome to Our Gathered Cottage! I have loved home decor + thrifting for years but it was't until we moved into our 1953 Maryland cottage and started styling our home on a small budget that I wanted to share it with others! Take a look around the blog and hopefully something will inspire you too!